Is it just my personal opinion...

or is it rude to call up your ex-girlfriend at 1am to tell her that (a) you're coming to town and (b) the reason you haven't responded to her congratulatory calls is because you were trying to see how things with "Emma", your new fling, panned out? Personally, I find that rude, but maybe it's just me. Especially when said ex-girlfriend actually arose from her slumber to take the call thinking it must be an emergency at 1am on Wednesday morning. I suppose there's a reason for the "ex-" prefix in this case.